I guess you're right in the observation that the ESC reference-group (whoever are in this group) is focusing on the contest as a TV show and prioritizing issues supporting this, rather than wishes from ESC enthusiasts. On the other hand, the ESC enthusiasts seem overly conservative and against any changes. I'm not sure where my opinions are. The only argument so far against the idea is the suspicion of corruption, right? So a system that effectively removes any chances of corruption, but gives the TV producers more freedom than simply chance, would surely be better or what?
I don't believe for a second the ESC reference-group are evil morons or paid off by someone. They must have thought this through carefully.