i mean, when your biggest criticism of proud is "dated" and "without appeal", it did sound like your goal is for a contest that is more "modern" and "on trend". if that was not your point, then it's on you to make your point more clear lol.
the thing with music is that everything is subjective, so we as a collective will never really reach an agreement on anything. i don't think proud is dated (or modern; some compositions just don't really have a timestamp), banal, uninteresting, without appeal, and reality show-esque, but those are all feelings i do have against nobody but you from last year, which has a lot of fans, including people who think proud is boring. what can we do?
i do still think there is little point in complaining against proud winning the jury if one of your goals is to keep the contest less americanised, though, which is a view you have expressed in the past. liking it or not, dated or not, this is not at all an americanised song. just because it is a ballad, and an allegedly boring one, it doesn't mean that it is automatically an "american idol / the voice" kind of song. this is what i was trying to say earlier.