There are comparisons between Tears Getting Sober and Alcohol You. I get it, the production is similar, the topics seem similar and they're rivals so it's easy to arrive at the comparison. Yet, it doesn't *feel* like they're occupying the same spot at all. To me, and I like them both very much, they feel like they're complete opposites. I could have just stated that one is about negative emotions and the other positive ones, but this is too simple for what I want to convey. I will explain:
Alcohol You is pulling at the black hole in my heart where all regrets are sucked into because I just have to live without the darkness. Once in a while I still need to stare at the abyss. I need to see what it is being me, what I have wrought, what others have wrought, what was and what was not, what is and what isn't, I must evaluate *me*. Alcohol You is about regret. It is about walking towards the abyss and confronting its hopelessness.
Tears Getting Sober is *not* about regret. It is about the absolute opposite, hope. It is about walking away from that abyss, understanding that regret is nothing but a disappointment and a lesson learned, that the black hole is a mirage of things that never were. Memories of dreams gone by, opportunities not taken, wrong decisions, they are games your mind plays with itself, they are not meant to make you blind to the fantastic truth of a hopeful future lying ahead of you.
I survived a state of sickening depression. Regret is about the only emotion available in such a state. Regret is what fueled me, what allowed me to continue. Regret means something deeply personal to me. Hope is nice, but seems naive. I don't know how many are like me, but I think we are Legion and they will understand what I'm speaking of. Tears Getting Sober is unable to get the visceral reaction that Alcohol You can give. If Alcohol You didn't do it for you, take Repondez-Moi, it is the same. That song is also about looking into the abyss.
As such, I think the televote appeal for Tears Getting Sober isn't naturally as high as one might think. The emotional gravity just isn't there, so it's just the song being pretty that is going to be the appeal. Luckily, it is very pretty though.